BESS makes a special effort to welcome those who are new to BDSM and help each person find their own place in the lifestyle. We understand that you may have concerns about attending a BESS event for the first time and we strive to create a safe and comfortable environment for you to learn more about BDSM and socialize with people who have similar interests. We are here to answer your questions and have a special point of contact for you: please do not hesitate to email us at and we will assist you in any way we can.