Welcome to the Baltimore Educational and Social Society

BESS is an educational and social group for consenting adults with shared interests in BDSM. These interests include, among others, Dominance & submission, bondage & discipline, leathersex, fetishism, cross dressing, and roleplay. BESS is multi-sexual. All genders and orientations are welcome to attend.

Our goal is to provide a safe, friendly, and discreet environment for the education and encouragement of adults interested in Safe, Sane, and Consensual expressions of BDSM.

BESS Contributorships, Educational Meetings, Socials, and SIGs are open to anyone, age 19 or older, with a sincere interest in some aspect of BDSM.

BESS is a not-for-profit organization.
We are NOT a sex or swingers club, although BESS play parties are sex positive.
We are NOT a dating service. We do NOT make referrals.

Questions? Please check either the New to BDSM or Contact Us links.

  • BESS Education has MOVED!  All Wednesday Education meetings are now held at the Baltimore Playhouse - 3010 Washington Blvd, Baltimore, MD.
  • BESS is happy to announce Vendor Discounts for current BESS contributors - check out our vendor page for more information - Vendors
  • BESS is on FetLife and Facebook! Check us out at http://fetlife.com/groups/280 and https://www.facebook.com/BESS.MD