Let's meet the Officers of BESS!


President -- Rob

Getting involved in local kink communities over eight years ago, Rob has traveled a long and windy road on his journey to become a Master. Bestowed by his peers, he does not take the title lightly and feels that the journey is one he believes to be never ending. He lives in a 24/7 Master/slave household as the owner and Master of slave lori, his wife of 30 years.

Active in the Baltimore Educational and Social Society (BESS), as well as MAsT: Towson and the Master/slave Conference, Rob has presented to local groups and participated in panel discussions. He is proud to be an alumnus of MTTA. Rob strongly believes in giving back to the community and volunteers at various community activities and events. 

Vice-President -- Open

Position open

Secretary -- Cocobuns

Cocobuns Bio

Hello fellow kinksters! I’m Cocobuns, but my friends call me either Coco or Buns. I entered the scene in the summer of 2018 and it’s been a very reflective journey so far. I feel very at home in this community and I still have so much more to explore. I feel very honored to be the secretary of BESS and I hope to use my role in the organization to welcome in newbie kinksters. If you are new or curious, come say hi to me! Chances are, I will be very excited to meet you and I may even be able to connect you with others who share your interests. Aside from being a full-time student, I also love to hula hoop and attend kink community events. Come meet me at a BESS event every first and third Wednesday! Happy kinking!

Ombudsman -- Delane

Delane was formally introduced to D/s, M/s dynamic and BDSM by his slave in 2008. He has stated what he has learned has been mostly self-discovery of one's true self and his slave carrie has aided him to peel away unnecessary walls. It has been a journey with more highs than lows in growing into his true self. He believes no matter how long you have been involved in kink (and life in general), you are always on a path of learning and growth. 

Delane lives with his slave carrie in a 24/7 M/s leather household. They are firm believers of giving back to the community where they can and Pay it Forward a lot. He retired in 2009 from the military after 25 years of service. He volunteers at Baltimore Playhouse as a dungeon monitor, BESS and MsC. He is a member of BESS, Baltimore Playhouse, MAsT Frederick and MAsT Towson.