• Use common courtesy at all times
  • Don’t make assumptions – sometimes a collar is just a fashion statement
  • When meeting someone new, introduce yourself, not your role, and speak to the person, not a role
  • Do not touch anyone else’s toys without permission – this includes their human toys (submissives/slaves)
  • Observe scenes quietly – take conversations to the social space
  • Do not interrupt or enter a scene without being invited
  • Pay attention and watch where you walk in the play space – whips can have a wide swing
  • Clean up after yourself – dispose of trash and wipe down equipment after a scene
  • Ask someone if they would like to play, but be gracious if they say no or if they refer you to their Dominant for permission to speak or play with you if they are submissive
  • Be honest – to others and to yourself – about your interests and your limits
  • Be responsible – do not bring illegal drugs to a scene event and respect house rules regarding alcohol and sexual activities
  • Be discreet when you encounter scene people in the real world – some people are not “out” about their kinky interests